what to bring to a family photo shoot

What to bring to a family photo shoot

A friendly guide so you don’t pack like you’re going camping

Let’s be honest: planning a family photo session can feel a tiny bit like preparing for a day trip with unpredictable mini-humans. That’s because… it is.
But don’t worry, this isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up prepared enough to relax and enjoy!
In this article, I’ll walk you through what to bring to a family photo shoot so you can stop overthinking and start looking forward to it.

1- Outfits (but not a fashion show)

You don’t need matching flower crowns or designer neutrals, unless that’s your thing.
Choose outfits that are:

  • comfortable
  • weather-appropriate
  • layered (especially in Ireland — hello, four seasons in a day)
  • colour-coordinated if you’d like, but not identical

It’s always smart to bring:

  • a spare top or outfit for young kids (because ice cream happens)
  • a few non-crumpled extras in a tote, just in case

And don’t forget shoes that can handle a bit of mud or sand, depending where we go! Read my complete article about what to wear to a family session

mother cuddling her toddler for a solo mum family photo session
little girl posing for Stress-free family photography Dublin

2- Snacks (yes, please!)

Hunger = meltdown. It’s science.
Pack a few simple, non-messy snacks like:

  • rice cakes
  • bananas
  • oat bars
  • anything that doesn’t stain (step away from the strawberries)

Avoid sticky stuff and chocolate unless you want to document that moment forever (which is fair, it’s cute!)
Also: bring water!

3- Comfort objects and distractions

If your child has a favourite soft toy, blanket, or tiny plastic dinosaur they simply must have… bring it.
It can help them feel safe and calm, and sometimes it even ends up in the photos in the most adorable way.

Small distractions like a bubble wand or a picture book can also help if we need a moment to reset.

You can read my complete article with tips to prepare your child for the session

4- Baby essentials (because life happens)

For little ones, have these on hand:

  • nappies and wipes
  • a muslin or burp cloth
  • a dummy
  • a warm blanket or extra layer

Bonus: bring something to sit on if we’re outdoors and you’re planning to have a snack: a small blanket works great and looks nice in photos too.

mother breastfeeding newborn and cuddling dog during an unposed newborn photography session
family buying icecream at sandymount beach in Dublin
a doormat that says welcome and the sun casting shadows on the floor

5- Your mindset (I mean it!)

This one’s free but powerful: come as you are.

You don’t need to be perfect, and there’s no such thing anyway!
Your kids don’t need to behave a certain way.
You don’t need to worry if someone’s hair is doing something weird, that’s part of the charm.

When you come prepared but relaxed, your photos will reflect just that. The goal isn’t to impress. It’s to remember.

So, what should you bring to a family photo shoot?

✔ Outfits that are comfortable and practical
✔ Snacks and drinks
✔ Wipes, spares and soft toys
✔ Your patience, sense of humour and love for your crew

Honestly? That’s it. I’ve got the rest.

And if you forget something? We improvise. That’s half the fun anyway.

mum and her daughter cuddling at the park
a family going down the stairs at home
mother playing with her daughter at the beach

FAQ: What families ask me all the time

What if I forget something important?

Don’t stress. We’ll figure it out together. As parents we forget stuff all the time and life goes on 🙂 You can make a “must-have” list ahead of the shoot and check it as you get ready, if it helps.

Can we bring toys?

Absolutely, as long as they won’t cause war between siblings. Bonus points if they’re quiet, soft, or photogenic. And if they’re not, it’s ok: if it’s your kids favorite EVER, it deserves to be in pictures.

Do you help with outfit choices?

Yes! I send a full prep guide before your session, and you can always message me with outfit options. I love helping families feel confident in their choices.

Do you work with single mums?

Absolutely. I work with all kinds of families, including single mums, divorced co-parents who still want family photos, LGBTQ+ families, solo-by-choice, and every loving dynamic in between. You are welcome, exactly as you are.

Will it feel weird to be photographed alone with the kids?

Not at all. Most of my sessions are relaxed, playful, and very low-pressure. I gently guide you when needed, but I also let life unfold naturally. You won’t feel staged or awkward. You’ll just be present with your kids.

My husband hates photos, can I still book a session?

Yes, you can. And you probably should. Many of my clients’ partners end up loving the final photos even if they chose not to take part.
Don’t let someone else’s discomfort stop you from creating memories with your children! This time is fleeting, and you deserve to be in it. And who knows? Maybe next time they’ll want to join!

Ready to enjoy a stress-free family photo shoot?

If this checklist about what to bring to a family photo shoot helped you feel more prepared (and maybe even a little excited!), imagine how relaxed you’ll feel during the actual session.
I’ll guide you every step of the way, so you can focus on your people, not the poses.

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